Chicago Matchmaker



Our professional matchmakers have been matchmaking Chicagoland singles looking for love since 2009. If you live in places like Near North Side, Near South Side, Lincoln Park, Lakeview, Andersonville, Kenwood, Hyde Park, or Rogers Park its hard to meet your match while you’re just out and about.

Chicago singles beyond the city in places like Bridgeview, Lisle, Northlake, Summit, Midlothian, Matteson, Worth, West Chicago, Crete and Mokena have hired our professional matchmakers and personal coaches to meet the man or woman of their dreams.

Although it might be hard to sometimes to make it out and about in the Windy City there’s no shortage of outstanding singles surrounding you. Online and mobile dating often do more harm than good because they tend to be flooded with bad actors. We prove identity and age, run criminal background checks and personally interview people we represent face-to-face to ensure our clients have a safe and worry-free experience.

Complete our Get Started form or call us toll free at (800) 734-9230 for matchmaking services in Chicago. 



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Complete our confidential Get Started form to be contacted by a representative so you can discuss your criteria and what we can do for you. Click this Get Started button to begin.

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Speak with a coordinator to determine the right level of service for you. Each experience is customized to suit a client's needs and budget. Prices will be discussed on the call. To qualify for matchmaking you must prove your identity, verify your age and photos and pass a background check.

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To assist our clients in finding, forming and maintaining the ideal relationship we offer professional dating and relationship coaching as a complement to or substitute for matchmaking. You will meet your coach face-to-face to identify patterns, break habits, learn best practices and plan ahead.

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We present your photos and profile to prospective matches and vice versa. We do our best to advocate for you and create interest. If you both accept the match we exchange numbers and expect you to get acquainted before you meet. Your feedback continuously improves the process.

Is Intimacy Dead?

Wednesday, December 10, 2014


Is Intimacy Dead?


As I was going through my Facebook newsfeed one morning I came across a status update from an old friend of mine to his wife, “Cant wait to see you tonight for a couple of hours before you leave your boys again :(“. Certainly a cute note to send your wife (privately), but I instantly couldn’t help but feel like a guest in their home who overheard their morning bed talk. I felt like I had eavesdropped. But I didn’t. I realized he chose to broadcast this to all their friends, family, exes, coworkers, competitors, clients and any other subscriber of theirs to see. Although it may seem harmless, over time, broadcasting your affection for your partner may naturally and unnecessarily corrode the very foundation of your relationship: its intimacy.

True intimacy is sharing your most secret personal knowledge and affections with one person above all others. In my opinion without privacy you cannot experience intimacy in the deepest sense of the word. Especially when it comes to matters of the heart. To achieve a healthy, happy, long-lasting relationship I absolutely believe you must exclusively share your body, secrets, desires, fantasies, affections, dreams and other sacred knowledge with one person. This is what makes someone the closest person in your life. It should be this way. It must be this way. There’s nothing wrong with spicing things up but when inviting others into your relationship (physically or emotionally) becomes normal, you’re only inviting trouble.

What’s the point? As the world around us is changing more and more every day, a lot of us would still like to find, form and maintain a “traditional” relationship built on “traditional values”. I 100% support the traditions of monogamy, commitment, marriage, etc., but we must consciously evolve our way of thinking to preserve these traditions and we must accelerate this process or we will be surpassed by the world around us even faster than we can imagine. Although intelligent and strong willed people can construct boundaries in any relationship I feel it is ingrained in our human nature to elevate one lover above all others as the ultimate sign of respect. The shifting sands of social convention will continue to challenge those seeking a fully faithful, intimate, monogamous relationship.

 

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*Our Guarantee. The information we provide regarding other individuals is reliable to the best of our knowledge. Everyone has their identity, age and photos verified and is subject to public record background checks. If information we provide is found to be inaccurate we discount the match and try again. We cannot guarantee or promise a certain outcome or result from matchmaking or coaching. Nothing we say or do can be construed as a guarantee about the outcome of your experience. Our past or future comments about the outcome of your experience, potential matches, estimates of fees and time frames or our opinions are not guarantees. Actual fees and time frames may vary from the estimates given.