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Since 2007 our professional matchmakers have steered New York's most eligible singles into lasting relationships. Outstanding men and women throughout The Empire State, from Manhattan to Buffalo, Albany to the Adirondacks, Staten Island to The Hamptons hire us to meet their match. 

Manhattan has no shortage of singles looking for love, but it's no different in Brooklyn, Queens or the Bronx either. It has never been more difficult to meet like-minded, well-intentioned singles thanks to the bad actors on dating sites, mobile apps, at singles events, in bars, etc.

Master Matchmakers will verify age and identity, conduct interviews and perform background checks to ensure our clients have a safe and worry-free experience. Photos and a personally prepared profile will be shared with every match and you speak before you meet. Your matches won't expire so take the time you need to explore the potential of every introduction.

To find love in the Empire State complete our Get Started form or call us at (800) 734-9230.

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Speak with a coordinator to determine the right level of service for you. Each experience is customized to suit a client's needs and budget. Prices will be discussed on the call. To qualify for matchmaking you must prove your identity, verify your age and photos and pass a background check.

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To assist our clients in finding, forming and maintaining the ideal relationship we offer professional dating and relationship coaching as a complement to or substitute for matchmaking. You will meet your coach face-to-face to identify patterns, break habits, learn best practices and plan ahead.

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We present your photos and profile to prospective matches and vice versa. We do our best to advocate for you and create interest. If you both accept the match we exchange numbers and expect you to get acquainted before you meet. Your feedback continuously improves the process.

Vulgar Vigilantes of Tinder & OkCupid

Tuesday, October 28, 2014


Vulgar Vigilantes of Tinder & OkCupid
Lauren Giordano/The Atlantic

Olga Khazan does a fabulous job of exposing the underbelly of online dating this week in a terrific article for The Atlantic. She writes on the catharsis that women get when they public shame someone who offended them with inappropriate messaging or requests online. Khazan cites a recent PEW Research Study that says of the respondents surveyed who have experienced harassment online, only 6% of them reported that the experience took place while online dating.

Based on what I've heard, either harassment in online dating is being grossly underreported in this study, or it is rampant in social networking, the comments section of a website, online gaming, personal email, and online discussion sites such as Reddit. 

If someone you just met, or even someone you know crosses the line online, there are things you can do to stop them from contacting you or doing it again. First, take screen shots and document the harassment. Let the person know you've done this and that you intend to report them for abuse. Then block them. If they persist by contacting you in other ways you have a full blown criminal complaint on your hands. Posting their misdeeds on your own social media however is not recommended.

Its one thing to be seen as a whistle blower. But when someone who wants to innocently get to know you does a deep dive on Google or Facebook and notices this little exposé of yours, they might think twice about getting close to you. It would be natural for them to assume that you would be quick to share your private life publicly and that would scare anyone. 

For this very reason we are building Love Lab®. Our solution to online dating deception and abuse is to create a mobile messaging app that proves the photo, identity and age of interested users. It also performs criminal background checks and allows people to trade disappearing photos and videos to be sure there's chemistry before they meet. 

If you'd like personal coaching or guaranteed matches from Steven Ward and his staff please complete our Getting Started Form

To read The Atlantic article, click HERE.

To read the PEW study, click HERE.

 

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