Southern California Matchmaker



Whether we are matchmaking in Los Angeles, recruiting in Orange County or setting up singles in San Diego, Southern California singles turn to our professional matchmakers and personal coaches to find the love they're looking for. 

Singles in Los Angeles, Orange, Riverside, Santa Barbara and San Diego Counties rely on us to find their ideal match and steer them into the relationship they're looking for. Whether you're in Hollywood or Huntington Beach, Santa Monica or San Diego, Santa Barbara, Irvine, Newport Beach or beyond, we can be of service to you. 

We verify photos, conduct face-to-face interviews and run background checks to provide a safe and worry-free experience. View photos, read profiles, ask us anything and speak to potential matches before you meet. It's no wonder why we are the number one matchmaker in The Golden State.

To find love in California complete our Get Started form or call us toll free at (800) 734-9230


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Speak with a coordinator to determine the right level of service for you. Each experience is customized to suit a client's needs and budget. Prices will be discussed on the call. To qualify for matchmaking you must prove your identity, verify your age and photos and pass a background check.

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To assist our clients in finding, forming and maintaining the ideal relationship we offer professional dating and relationship coaching as a complement to or substitute for matchmaking. You will meet your coach face-to-face to identify patterns, break habits, learn best practices and plan ahead.

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We present your photos and profile to prospective matches and vice versa. We do our best to advocate for you and create interest. If you both accept the match we exchange numbers and expect you to get acquainted before you meet. Your feedback continuously improves the process.

Proof That Soul Mates Don't Exist

Tuesday, August 12, 2014


According to a recent study published in the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology scientists concluded through a series of experiments that:

• Framing love as perfect unity can hurt relationship satisfaction.
• It hurts relationship satisfaction only in conflicts, not in celebrations.
• This content dependency supports metaphorical framing, not metaphorical transfer.
• Metaphorical framing effects are limited to targets to which frames are applicable.

What does that mean in laymen's terms? It means that when you fight, and you're the kind of person who considers someone your "soul mate", your relationship satisfaction will be negatively impacted much more than if you simply had an idealistic frame of your partnership - you're two individuals on a parallel path. This makes perfect sense. Why?

If you truly believe in the Myth of Romantic Love you will have a greater crisis of confidence and question your faith whenever a fight occurs. When you frame your partnership more realistically and fight, you'll simply wonder whether or not this person is right for you. So what are we to do?

A study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology concluded, "that satisfaction is associated with idealistic, rather than realistic, perceptions of one's partner". In other words, it is imperative to focus on the positive and train yourself to idealize your partner. You must intentionally marginalize their shortcomings. But that doesn't mean you should turn a blind eye to obvious issues. In this study researchers concluded that people who idealized their spouses when they married (focused primarily on their good qualities) were more likely to still be happy with their partner years later.

In my opinion these two studies suggest how important it is to maintain positivity, optimism and hope. However, considering the relationship preordained can detrimental. Balance your expectations and desires carefully or beware of the consequences. 

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If you'd like personal support, direction and guidance and the opportunity to meet your match, complete our Getting Started Form.

To read the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology study please click HERE

To read the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology study please click HERE.

To read about The Myth of Romantic Love please click HERE

 

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