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San Francisco Matchmaker

If you're single in San Francisco, San Jose or Sacramento and ready to meet your ideal match but don’t know where to start, then look no further than Master Matchmakers. Our team of professional matchmakers and dating coaches have been successfully setting up outstanding singles like you for years. 

We understand the difficulties that come with meeting someone in today’s world. That is why we take extra steps when it comes to finding potential matches for our clients. We carefully screen everyone we represent by verifying photos, conducting face-to-face interviews and running background checks so that our clients can have a safe and worry-free experience when looking for their ideal match. 

Our 30 year track record speaks volumes about how successful Master Matchmaker has been at helping people find true love throughout Northern California including San Francisco, Napa Valley, Sonoma Valley, Silicon Valley etc. So if you're serious about wanting to meet your match its time to hire the professionals at Master Matchmakers.

What is Master Matchmakers, and what services does it offer in San Francisco?

Master Matchmakers is a premier matchmaking service in San Francisco, offering personalized matchmaking and professional dating coaching to singles in San Francisco, San Jose, and Sacramento. Since its inception, the service has successfully connected numerous singles by thoroughly screening every potential match, verifying photos, conducting face-to-face interviews, and running comprehensive background checks. Master Matchmakers serves the broader Northern California region, including Napa Valley, Sonoma Valley, and Silicon Valley.

Why should someone choose Master Matchmakers for their matchmaking needs in San Francisco?

Choosing Master Matchmakers means trusting a service with a 30-year track record of success in Northern California. We understand the challenges of modern dating and provide a safer, more efficient way to meet quality singles. Our rigorous screening process, combined with personalized matchmaking and professional coaching, ensures that clients have a meaningful and worry-free experience. Unlike other services, we focus on genuine compatibility and long-term success.

What is the process involved in Master Matchmakers' matchmaking services, from initial consultation to ongoing support?

  1. Get Started: Complete our "Get Started" form or call us at (800) 734-9230 to initiate the process. A representative will contact you to discuss your matchmaking criteria and outline our services.
  2. Background Checks: We verify your identity, age, and photos, and conduct a criminal background check to ensure authenticity and safety.
  3. Personal Coaching: Our professional dating and relationship coaching helps you identify patterns, break habits, and prepare for successful relationships. You'll meet your coach face-to-face for tailored guidance.
  4. Guaranteed Matches: We present your profile and photos to prospective matches and facilitate introductions if both parties are interested. Continuous feedback from both sides helps refine the matchmaking process.

How does Master Matchmakers' personalized approach to matchmaking differ from other matchmaking services?

Master Matchmakers distinguishes itself with a highly customized and hands-on approach. Unlike other services that rely on algorithms, we emphasize personal compatibility and meaningful connections. Our thorough verification process ensures that all members are genuine and meet high standards. Additionally, our professional coaching services support clients in finding and maintaining ideal relationships, providing a comprehensive and effective matchmaking experience.

To find love in California complete our Get Started form or call us at (800) 734-9230.

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Ready to take the first step towards finding your match? Fill out our classified "Get Started" form now! A representative will be in touch to hear all about your criteria and show you what our supreme matching services can do for you. So, what are you waiting for? Your new beginning is one click away.

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Speak with a coordinator to determine the right level of service for you. Each experience is customized to suit a client's needs and budget. Prices will be discussed on the call. To qualify for matchmaking you must prove your identity, verify your age and photos and pass a background check.

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To assist our clients in finding, forming and maintaining the ideal relationship we offer professional dating and relationship coaching as a complement to or substitute for matchmaking. You will meet your coach face-to-face to identify patterns, break habits, learn best practices and plan ahead.

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We present your photos and profile to prospective matches and vice versa. We do our best to advocate for you and create interest. If you both accept the match we exchange numbers and expect you to get acquainted before you meet. Your feedback continuously improves the process.

You Can’t Change Him (or Her)

Monday, August 06, 2012


It’s been said a thousand times, trumpeted from every advice column and TV show. Yet I still find clients wondering why their partners don’t change. Somehow they believe the magic of a romantic relationship will free their boy/girlfriend from destructive behavior.

It won’t. If anything, by remaining in a relationship with someone who displays inappropriate behavior you only encourage them to continue.

The behavior doesn’t even have to be inappropriate. A recent client complained to me about her boyfriend who is terrible at planning. She never knows if/when they will see each other. This activates her abandonment issues from her childhood. She tried again and again to explain her abandonment issues to her boyfriend and asked him again and again to be more considerate of her feelings and be more planful.

Ideally, this man would learn to plan like most adults with busy lives and make conscious room in his life for the woman he professes love for. But he’s not going to change because of her abandonment issues. She has two choices, continue with the relationship and work on her issues, knowing that for the rest of their lives he will never be thoughtful around planning. Or end the relationship.

Destructive behavior like drug abuse and violent anger are never ones you should try to change. These types of situations are best left as quickly and safely as possible.

But other behavior—poor housekeeping habits, bad diet, enmeshed relations with family, always being late—these can sometimes be tolerated.

If you find yourself in this type of situation with your partner, look at why the change you are asking for is important to you. Does it say more about you than it does about the other person? What does your partner tolerate in you?

Asking, cajoling, begging and threatening do not work. People change behavior when they feel motivated internally. No amount of external push will get someone to alter their behavior. Accept a person for who he/she is or get out.

Hardly a new idea, but one worth repeating.

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*Our Guarantee. The information we provide regarding other individuals is reliable to the best of our knowledge. Everyone has their identity, age and photos verified and is subject to public record background checks. If information we provide is found to be inaccurate we discount the match and try again. We cannot guarantee or promise a certain outcome or result from matchmaking or coaching. Nothing we say or do can be construed as a guarantee about the outcome of your experience. Our past or future comments about the outcome of your experience, potential matches, estimates of fees and time frames or our opinions are not guarantees. Actual fees and time frames may vary from the estimates given.