What's holding you back?

Tuesday, August 14, 2012

Clients reach out to us because they need help in their love life. They take the step, make the call, and get ready to get started and…

  • Their ex (that is an ex for a reason) comes back into the picture
  • They experience a health concern or financial setback that requires immediate attention
  • Their schedule becomes unusually busy (with other people's business)

No matter what that something is, it has the potential to stop our potential client from moving forward. This is the nature of sabotage.

Consciously you know you want a healthy and happy relationship, but unconsciously you probably have some negative beliefs about relationships:

  • Maybe you’ve been hurt, betrayed or rejected or seen too many people in unhealthy or unhappy relationships
  • Maybe you’ve experienced tremendous loss and do not want to go through the pain again
  • Maybe you have grown comfortable with your life as it is and fear it will change

While we don’t know what specific belief is holding you back, we know you have some highly evolved defense mechanisms (or creative coping strategies) that show up when you go for what you want.

Our coaching program is designed to help you break your relationship patterns. We will actually use your failed relationships to help you realize your negative relationship beliefs and the specific defense mechanisms associated with the belief.

Even better, we will customize an action plan intended to help you change your approach because when you change your actions, you change your results.

Beyond that, we will address the most common relationship saboteurs by creating realistic expectations, teaching you about male-female brain communication and making sure you do not lose yourself in the relationship.

Do not let the seductive pull of “the familiar” hold you back. You know how to navigate the confines of your comfort zone. We know the specific steps you need to take to get the relationship results you want.

We hope you will take the first step today!

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Joann Ward has over 30 years of experience in the dating service industry. Along with her son, CEO Steve Ward they became internationally known as the Hosts and Executive Producers of VH1 Tough Love

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